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Hi I’m Rosie Acosta. I am a Meditation Teacher; Speaker and Author of You Are Radically Loved: A healing journey to self-love. I grew up in East Los Angeles during the 92 La Riots and it set me on a troubled path for many years. I didn’t grow up with mentors in my life, so I turned to reading as many books as I possibly could to learn about life’s purpose. In my journey as a First Gen-Mexican American, I found having these conversations gave me insight, support, and inspiration. So, I decided to create a place where I could share these conversations with my community. The Radically Loved Podcast was born! How do we create a radically loved life? Come have a sit with me so we can discover all things mindfulness, spirituality, self-love, and overall healthy living. Please be sure to share the episodes that you love and also leave us a review!
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Sep 29, 2021

Promoting Diversity and Inclusiveness in the Wellness Space with Maygen Nicholson

Yoga and meditation are crucial tools we use in an increasingly busy and stressful world. But, did you know some people are being excluded in these spaces? The 2SLGBTQIA+ community has long withstood discrimination in society, and the wellness space is no exemption. It’s already difficult to manage stress, what more for those who are marginalized.

In today's episode, Maygen Nicholson breaks down how we can promote diversity and inclusiveness  in the wellness spaces and everywhere you go. The first step is understanding. Furthermore, it is a lifelong process that involves continuously educating ourselves and learning from others. The journey will be uncomfortable, but that is part of the work that we need to do.

If you want to learn how to create safe spaces for the non-gender-conforming people in your community, this episode is for you!     

Here are three reasons why you should listen to the full episode:

  1. Understand why it’s crucial to honor people’s identities.
  2. Learn how you can embrace diversity and inclusiveness.
  3. Know how to educate yourself and others on the topic.

Resources

  • Check out the incredible work of theTrans Yoga Project!
  • Tristan Katz’ website
  • Maygen and Tristan Katz’ Public Statement regarding J Brown’s podcast interview
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Episode Highlights

Honoring Pronouns and Names

  • Affirming someone in their identity drastically decreases mental health risks.
  • Misgendering others can cause them to have gender dysphoria, a state of psychological distress.
  • Doing this also equates to gaslighting the person you are misgendering.
  • Practice asking how people want to be called.

The Need for Diversity and Inclusiveness in Healing Spaces

  • Maygen used to hold queer and trans-only yoga classes. Most of their attendees only felt comfortable practicing yoga with them.
  • Yoga and meditation are important tools for the marginalized.
  • Yet, many queer and trans people experience harm and discrimination in these wellness spaces.
  • The main issue is a lack of understanding. So, it’s everybody’s responsibility to learn and do better.
  • Even the origin of yoga accepts and honors gender-nonconforming people, so why isn’t our modern practice able to do the same?

Educating Ourselves

  • We all need to educate ourselves on the matter. It is not a gender non-conforming person’s job to teach you.
  • You will always have a blind spot, so it’s crucial to keep learning from others and your mistakes.
  • The first step is dismantling your biases around gender, and then learning about what you don’t know.
  • Promoting diversity and inclusivity is less about knowing the right language and more about making other people feel seen and heard.

Divestment and Support

  • There are still a lot of important conversations to have.
  • For instance, the number of black trans people being murdered is increasing every year.
  • It’s not possible to cancel people with immense privilege. What you can do instead is to divest or pull away from them.
  • It’s exhausting for people in the community to constantly speak about their marginalization.
  • As an ally, you can show your support for diversity and inclusiveness by talking to the people in your life.

Embracing Diversity and Inclusiveness

  • We have to graduate from tokenism and confront our biases within ourselves.
  • Even if you come from a place of privilege, there are still ways the dominant culture inhibits you from being who you truly are.
  • It’s going to take a while before spaces created by cis white people become safe for everyone. In the meantime, you can create these spaces yourself.
  • Hire people from the community to create a more diverse workspace.
  • Advocating for diversity and inclusiveness will benefit you too, as it will make your space richer.

Taking Action

  • Ideas are not helpful if they only live in your head. You need to put your knowledge into action.
  • Different identities have long existed before colonization.
  • As such, promoting diversity and inclusiveness is also a process of reclamation.

5 Powerful Quotes from This Episode

[09:53] “I think that that's the biggest problem. It's like so because you don't want to offend, you just don't say anything. That's not the point either.”

[17:41] “It's every person's responsibility to do the work, whether or not you have somebody in your life. It's also really important to know that it is not a trans or non-binary or gender nonconforming person's job to educate you.”

[19:17] “The first step is dismantling all your biases around gender or learning what you don't know about it.”

[20:24] ”Let go of any need to assume in the first place, that we look at somebody and we just know who they are.”

[36:44] “Since the beginning of time, these identities have existed and a multitude of cultures all over the world. So this is a reclamation process.”

About Maygen

Maygen Nicholson is an LGBTQIA+ Inclusion and Validation Educator, Changemaker, Truthteller, and Wellness Leader. They are passionate about helping to liberate hearts and minds free of beliefs and biases that hold us back from our true, authentic selves. To do this, Maygen facilitates safe spaces for LGBTQIA+ inclusion and validation education with an intersectional lens rooted in wellness.

Maygen trained as a professional dancer and became a yoga teacher. They saw the inherent queer and trans exclusion and discrimination within these two industries. These experiences led them to hold queer and trans-specific yoga sessions and reach out to the greater public through education workshops and learning sessions.

Learn more about Maygen’s work on their website.

You can also reach out to them via Instagram, Linkedin, Facebook, and email.

 

sign up for their workshops!" to this link: www.maygennicholson.com/upcoming-events

 

 

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Sep 24, 2021

Building Resilience To Find Peace From Anxiety With Hala Khouri

We live in a time when our lives can be overwhelmed by stress and anxiety. Being in this constant state can perpetuate a feeling of helplessness. But at one point, we have to face all these negative feelings inside us to free ourselves from them by building resilience . Acknowledging that both positive and negative things can co-exist is the only way we can feel more at peace.

In this episode, Hala Khouri joins us to share the essential tools in her book, Peace from Anxiety. She talks about developing the concept of “tend and befriend” as a stress response and interoception as a self-regulation technique. Hala also discusses why she chose the theme of building resilience.

Tune in to the episode to learn how you can find peace from anxiety and transform your life.

Here are three reasons why you should listen to the full episode:

  1. Learn about the three different aspects that might be keeping you from finding peace.
  2. Find out helpful tips on what to do when you’re unable to regulate your nervous system during high-stress states.
  3. Discover the concepts of self-regulation, interoception, and building resilience in transforming yourself.

Resources

Episode Highlights

Writing Peace from Anxiety

  • Hala always knew the book was inside her. Many of her students and clients were requesting for the information to be more widely available.
  • The book-writing process was a seamless experience for Hala. She was ready and merely wrote every smart thing she has said.
  • The book is divided into three different parts. What will impact readers most depends on what’s missing in their lives.

The First Part: Physiological Aspects

  • This part is about grounding techniques, self-regulation, and understanding our nervous system.
  • It’s often the easiest for people to grasp and has the most immediate impact.
  • These tools are the things people remember, implement, and do all the time.

The Second Part: Relationships

  • We can’t be well alone.
  • While we can have all the tools for our bodies to run smoothly, we still need to build relationships.
  • This part is not something you can do right away. It involves working on prioritizing relationships, asking for help, and letting yourself need other people.

The Third Part: The Global Heart

  • It’s about feeling like we’re contributing towards a better world.
  • For some people, the missing piece is the sense of making meaning and taking accountability.
  • We all need to have a larger feeling of purpose and meaning.

Relationship Divisions on Social Media

  • Our thinking is very binary when we’re in a high-stress state.
  • Separation can be a stress reaction. The disembodied relationships and biased algorithms of social media make it worse.
  • Social media is the perfect storm to our massive division and intolerance for difference.
  • Before judging other people in a black-and-white manner, remember that we all have different levels of access to information and education.

On Unhappiness, Forgiveness, and Giving Care

  • Unhappy people tend to focus on their unhappiness because of the hypervigilance of figuring out how to be happy.
  • Hala has worked with people with anxiety and depression. The “cure” they found was extending their care beyond themselves.
  • We need to transform our stress response from “fight or flight” to “tend and befriend.”
  • Tend and befriend is about seeing that our well-being is bound and extending ourselves to care for others when we’re stressed.
  • With the coronavirus, nobody can be well until everybody is well. Getting vaccinated is more of thinking about the sake of other people than yourself.

What to Do When You’re Unable to Regulate Your Nervous System

  • Sometimes, we need somebody or something else to hold us. It can be another person or a spiritual belief that is bigger than us.
  • Connecting to the suffering of others intentionally makes us feel less alone in our suffering.
  • If you have COVID-19, think about all the other millions of people who also have COVID-19 at the exact moment.
  • Allow your heart to open and feel that you’re not alone in your suffering.
  • Tune in to the full episode to hear about Rosie’s experience on contracting COVID-19!

Launching a Book

  • Hala still feels surreal that her book is out.
  • She hopes the book becomes a tool to support and impact people, especially at this high-anxiety time.
  • One of her critiques about self-help books is their overly individualistic paradigm.
  • Her book encourages people to need each other and allows them not to do everything right by themselves.

Parenting at the Time of COVID-19

  • Her children understand how lucky they are to not be affected as badly as others.
  • The issues her children experience are around missing milestones that allow them to feel themselves growing.
  • Sometimes parents want to make their children’s bad feelings go away. Doing that is a disservice to your child.
  • Instead, Hala teaches her children how to face difficult feelings while also acknowledging what is positive.

Self-Regulating When You’re Hyperfocused on Negative Feelings

  • We tend to hyperfocus on negative feelings when we’re anxious, depressed, or scared.
  • Numbing or denying the negative feelings don’t work. Allow yourself to notice what else is in your body that feels good.
  • Build the capacity in your brain to hold something that feels pleasant along with what’s uncomfortable.
  • The goal is not to get overwhelmed by anxiety or depression. Then, they can become just a part of who we are while we’re still able to focus on the good.

Interoception and Trauma

  • Interoception is our capacity to sense what’s happening inside us.
  • Since we live in a disembodied culture, most of us have to learn it. This process is even harder for people who have had a lot of trauma in their formative years.
  • You have to understand that you can’t just stop being anxious instantly. But you can work on being more grounded.
  • It would be helpful to have support, such as being in a yoga class or working with a therapist.
  • You have to go slow. Otherwise, you will keep yourself in a high anxiety cycle.

Slowing Down

  • We get used to moving at a particular pace that’s comfortably uncomfortable. Slowing down is scary, but it is okay.
  • Hala decided not to go for her doctorate. It was a tough decision, but she realized she doesn’t have to do that right now.
  • We don’t always have to strive to be amazing; mediocrity can be satisfying as well.

Building Resilience in the Book

  • Hala focused on building resilience because it doesn’t pathologize.
  • Her favorite definition of resilience is allowing difficulties to transform us. It’s having this feeling that we can handle life.
  • Resilience is a word that is more nuanced than some other positive words. It’s about our capacity to imagine things being better than they were.
  • We’re all living in an imagined future. Trauma is a loss of imagination; reclaiming that capacity gives us hope.

How Hala Feels Radically Loved

  • Hala feels radically loved in every moment by being surrounded by blessings, opportunities, and supportive relationships.

5 Powerful Quotes

[11:11] “The thing that ‘cured’ [people with anxiety and depression] was actually extending their care beyond themselves, making it about something bigger than themselves.”

 

[11:23] “I think what our planet needs is for us to transform our stress response from a fight or flight to a tend and befriend.”

 

[11:51] “Until everybody is well, nobody can be well.”

 

[23:33] “Maybe the goal is to not be overwhelmed by our anxiety or to feel like we’re bigger than our depression so that those things become just a part of who we are.”

 

[33:31] “Trauma is a loss of imagination. And when we reclaim our capacity to imagine, then that gives us hope.”

 

About Hala

Hala Khouri is the co-founder of Off the Mat Into the World, an organization dedicated to bridging yoga and activism. She is a yoga and movement teacher with over 25 years of experience and training in Somatic Experiencing.

Hala is also a well-recognized speaker and trainer on yoga, social justice, and trauma. She has been doing clinical work and training for more than 15 years. The focus of her work is leading trauma-informed yoga training for individuals and groups. She trains educators and service providers on how to be trauma-informed and culturally responsive.

If you want to connect with Hala, you may visit her website, Facebook, and Instagram.

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Sep 22, 2021

#WisdomWednesdays: How to Stop Putting People on a Pedestal and Comparing Yourself to Others

If you’re like most people, you probably begin comparing yourself with others  at the sight of greener pastures. However, what others choose to show us often does not include their struggles and flaws. In addition, everyone has a unique life path. Thus, it's best to refrain from putting others on pedestals. Instead, look inwards. Ask yourself — how can you bring joy into your life? Can you be the sun in someone else's?

In this episode, Rosie and Tessa discuss the pitfalls of putting others on a pedestal and comparing yourself with others. They also touch on our humanness, making mistakes, and how everyone can change if we allow them to do so. Rosie also talks about choosing value-adding friendships and shares a personal experience about setting boundaries.

Tune in to discover simple ways to be more in tune with yourself and combat the lack mentality!

Here are three reasons why you should listen to the full episode:

  1. Understand why you shouldn’t put people on a pedestal and stop comparing yourself with others.
  2. Discover the need to look beyond people’s mistakes and allow them to change.
  3. Know the importance of choosing what kind of friendships to keep in your life. 

Resources

Episode Highlights

Why We Shouldn’t Put Other People on a Pedestal

  • We’re all humans who make mistakes. So, putting others on a pedestal only sets you up for disappointment.
  • We’re all flawed, but we tend to hide those parts of ourselves from the world. Instead, we only show our highlight reels.
  • Instead of comparing yourself with others, you can direct your energy and attention inward, toward things that bring you joy.
  • More often than not, we admire people not because they have something that we don’t, but because they live more freely than us.
  • Looking at someone carrying out their purpose can either spur us into action or make us feel defeated.

How to Stop Comparing Yourself with Others

  • We need to pause and consider that other people’s lives are their own.
  • We never know what someone else is going through. So, the best we can do is wish them well on their journey.
  • Also, recognize that you have a lot to be grateful for in your life. Doing so can help distance yourself from a ‘lack’ mentality.
  • Ask yourself, what are the things you've done that make you feel proud?

Acting on Inspiration

  • It’s not entirely wrong to put others on a pedestal because these people can inspire us to excel.
  • The issue comes with being addicted to the inspiration and not doing anything in return.
  • We have to create an outlet for this inspiration, or it becomes corrosive.

Looking Beyond Mistakes 

  • People make mistakes. What’s important is how we process and learn from them.
  • Sometimes, it’s difficult to own up to our own mistakes due to fear of rejection.
  • We must give ourselves and others room to make mistakes and learn from them.
  • People can change, and we should give them that space to grow.
  • If people are acting out, it’s often because they come from a place of pain.

On Friendships

  • There are three types of friends—high maintenance, low maintenance, and no maintenance.
  • There is a correct balance of friends for you. You can only give and take so much.
  • Keep friendships that are value-adding to your life. It's okay to let go of friends. Asymmetrical relationships can be harmful to both of you.
  • The key to navigating friendships is clear boundaries.
  • Listen to the full episode to hear Rosie’s story about a person who wanted to be friends with her.

Final Thoughts

  • To become better friends, we can reflect on this question: How do we show up as the sun in other people’s lives?
  • It is essential to cultivate your sense of self through meditation or alone time.
  • Through mindfulness, you can know yourself instead of focusing your attention on how people perceive you.
  • Knowing who you truly are can help you navigate life without being clouded by others' judgments.

5 Powerful Quotes

[04:36] Instead of comparing somebody else’s outsides to our insides, we can reflect and put our attention and energy into the things that make us happy and bring us joy.”

[11:33] “If we are just beings that want to consume inspiration and never do something in return, it's going to eventually create a void.”

[22:18] “Somebody that maybe you admire or that you see that might have this outwardly wonderful-looking life could be going through a lot. So I always say, don’t put people on pedestals.”

[37:01] “It’s time to release that relationship out into the world because it’s not serving you. And I do believe that you outgrow people.”

[41:52] “Without mindfulness, you will always be constructing your sense of self based on others’ perceptions.”

 

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Sep 17, 2021

Achieving Enlightenment through Self-Acceptance with Wade Lightheart

Do you have to be completely calm and serene to achieve enlightenment? The answer is, in a nutshell: no. You don't have to box in the different traits of yourself. Enlightenment is a journey by which you learn to accept yourself and your experiences. By continuously practicing yoga, you realize that the negative aspects go away by themselves.

In today's episode, Wade Lightheart shares how we can embrace the transcendent experience to enlightenment. Here, he talks about his personal journey in his spiritual practice. We also glean some wisdom from his stories of near death experiences. Wade further enlightens us on how we can immerse yoga with the human experience. His story reminds us that we can always go through all aspects of human emotions and experiences and still thrive and live.

If you want to find inspiration in your spiritual journey, then this episode is for you!

Here are three reasons why you should listen to the full episode:

  1. Discover how you can cultivate your practice towards enlightenment.
  1. Learn how Wade accepted and managed the nefarious characters within himself.
  1. Get insights from Wade’s stories of near death experiences.

Resources

Episode Highlights

Events that Led to Wade’s Spiritual Practice

  • Wade shares that his journey to spiritual practices has been through a series of miracles.
  • He had a near death experience when he was 22. This event gave him clarity about faith, divinity, and a deeper exploration of the self.
  • Wade also shares how he went through a series of past lives.
  • He was given the book by a former workmate, Autobiography of a Yogi, which resolved his issues with organized religion.

The Turning Point

  • Life had a different turn of events for Wade. He had several experiences in the underground scene, some of which he shares in the episode.
  • He soon came across a brother and sister who gave him three books on yoga. It was from one of these books that he realized he needed a mentor in his practice.
  • Yogananda appeared in his room, and through silent transmission, advised him to do Kriya Yoga.

Managing the Nefarious Character

  • Wade shares that although he cultivated his meditation and spiritual practice, he didn’t fully extricate himself from the party lifestyle.
  • With self-realization, he recognized the nefarious parts of him. He learned that acceptance was the answer and not resolution.
  • If you go deeper into your spiritual, internal realm, the less frequent the nefarious characters emerge. If they do, they come out in a more wholesome way.

Accepting versus Resolving

  • In meditation and yoga practice, there's often the notion that you have to tone down your "wild side," or that you have to look or behave a certain way.
  • But Wade clarifies that yoga is not a way of restriction; yoga is all-encompassing and accepting.
  • By practicing yoga and being inspired by divinity, the negative aspects of oneself go away on their own.

Enlightenment versus Sainthood

  • Sainthood is glorified in the West, while the East aims for Buddhahood or enlightenment.
  • The former is the perfection of the personality, while the latter is the transcendence of it.

Stories of Near Death Experiences

  • Wade shares that he had two more near death experiences, one of which was the ultimate death experience.
  • Listen to the full episode to hear more about these near death experiences!
  • This death is not only of the physical body but of the ego itself. David Hawkins refers to this as the "final door."
  • Death is an opening up to something far more than our lives and experiences.
  • A lot of Eastern practices are preparations for death, which is something that we have to transcend.

Navigating Daily Life

  • For Wade, not relying on faith puts things in perspective for him.
  • When you feel like you lack something, it's easy to get ensnared by sensory experiences instead of enjoying them.
  • Something that can help you avoid ensnarement is yoga, a practice you have to remember to do.

Recognizing Ensnarements

  • It could take years to escape sensory ensnarements.
  • Samsara is the karmic seeds that lie in one's consciousness.
  • Karmic seeds need to be undone, realized, or unrealized as your level of awareness moves up.
  • You need to harness spiritual company—people you can give honest feedback and with whom you can be transparent.
  • You may experience separation from divinity after your practice and still choose to continue without looking for an outcome.

Dark Nights of the Soul

  • After Wade’s experience of the dissolution of the ego, it was hard for him to come to terms with the feeling that his body would leave at any second.
  • To deal with this, Wade focuses on love. Through this, he can pursue his mission to end physical suffering and biologically optimize health.
  • To stabilize energies and stay on this planet, Wade holds on to the idea of his future children.
  • When he becomes a parent, he wants to cultivate a life of engaged non-attachment.

How Wade Feels Radically Loved

  • For Wade, existence is proof that we’re radically loved.
  • Only love could create something magnificent, unusual, and unique.

5 Powerful Quotes from This Episode

[11:23] “I don't think the nefarious characters ever dropped away. I'm not so sure that you actually resolve those things; I think you learn how to manage those things.”

[13:15] “There’s a nefarious character within all of us. [There needs] to be an acceptance and recognition of that, and recognize that that’s innately part of me and will never drop away.”

[21:22] “Maybe I can just bypass sainthood and become enlightened and just let the body and my personality and my ego do whatever it is because I’m in charge of those anyway.”

[24:54] “Every time you go further into the truth, there’s a part of you that has to die.”

[26:09] “Death is what enlightenment is. Death of what you think you are into that which has always been.”

About Wade

Wade Lightheart is a three-time Canadian National Natural Bodybuilding Champion and world-renowned authority in nutrition and training methods. He is the president of BiOptimizers, a company that aims to help others better their health. Wade is also the author of several books on health, exercise, and nutrition. His works have been sold in over 80 countries.

If you want to connect with Wade, visit him on Instagram or Facebook. You can also check out his company website, BiOptimizers.

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Sep 15, 2021

#WisdomWednesdays: The Power Of Actively Listening And Connecting With Others

We are constantly creating connections in everything we do. And the relationship we have with ourselves and other people—family, friends, and strangers alike—hone us in many ways. That’s why fostering deep interpersonal and intrapersonal connections is a life-long pursuit for many of us. It allows us to be at our highest selves and always come from a place of compassion and kindness. At the universal level, it creates a chain of positive reciprocity.

In this episode, Rosie and Tessa talk about three topics that would allow us to nurture our relationships with ourselves and others. First, they discuss what it means to be a mother and the concept of mothering yourself. Then, they delve into the practice of actively listening  to others and how it helps foster trust and genuine connection. Finally, they share personal stranger encounters that show how powerful and life-changing interactions with strangers could be.

Tune in and be inspired to start connecting deeply with yourself and other people!

Here are three reasons why you should listen to the full episode:

  1. Discover how Rosie and Tessa view being a mother and what self-mothering is.
  2. Learn the essence of actively listening and how to become an active listener.
  3. Understand the power of strangers.

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Episode Highlights

On Aging and the Decision to Have or Not Have Children

  • Tessa feels a little nervous about aging sometimes because she has chosen not to have children.
  • One of the reasons why Rosie wanted to have kids is she wanted somebody to take care of her. It’s what has happened historically and culturally.
  • But there’s no guarantee your children will take care of you and not put you in a home when you age.
  • Tessa’s parents decided to put her grandmother in a home. Meanwhile, Rosie's grandmother is living with her aunt and has always been living with family.

Becoming a Parent

  • Rosie’s path has not been linear. She still desires a family, but it’s decreasing as she gets older.
  • She believes that it will happen if it’s designed for her life. If it doesn’t, the desire will diminish and go away.
  • People without children cannot imagine what it’s like to have kids. Meanwhile, people with children cannot imagine life without their children.

Tessa’s Relationship with Her Grandmother

  • A grandparent’s love is different from that of a parent. Tessa’s parents' decision to put her grandmother in a home shocked her.
  • There was a chasm that grew between her and her mother that took some time to heal.
  • It was tough because Tessa wants to protect and make her grandmother feel loved.
  • She understands that there are many reasons why a home for her grandma was the better choice. It’s a full-time job to take care of aging parents.

Rosie’s Relationships with Her Grandmother

  • Rosie's grandmother raised her and her sister. Both of her parents worked full-time.
  • She yearns for her grandmother whenever she doesn’t feel well.
  • She was yearning for her mom when she had COVID. But she also wanted her grandmother to take care of her.

What Being a Mother Means

  • Self-mothering is a self-care process for Tessa; it’s unconditional love.
  • Rosie's idea of mothering means being aggressively protective yet all-encompassing in the most loving way.
  • Rosie pondered some questions in her journey of becoming a parent: What is the definition of a mother? What does mothering mean to you? How do you mother yourself?
  • The process of re-parenting and learning to mother yourself is a crucial part of adulthood.
  • Tessa's mother now wants a friendship with Tessa because she feels like she did her job as a mother.

The Job of a Mother

  • We constantly need to revisit our job of ensuring we feel loved and cared for as mothers to ourselves.
  • The more we tune into mothering ourselves, the more we can feel safe in navigating our lives.
  • Sometimes, we need to feel mothering from other people. You can utilize communities if you don't have a mother or lack a good relationship with yours.
  • There are many “mothers” in tribal communities waiting to fill chasms with love.
  • The world needs more of this feminine energy that comes from a place of compassion and kindness.

Active Listening

  • We garner more connection if we start actively listening to each other. Active listening is a practice.
  • Having a dialogue in your head while someone else is talking is not active listening.
  • Active listening is witnessing someone telling a story without judgment.
  • The whole concept behind actively listening is to establish not only a connection but also rapport and trust.
  • Tune in to the full episode to learn the seven ways to becoming an active listener!

Practicing Active Listening in Teacher Training

  • Rosie asks people to face each other, with one person speaking and another listening without interruption.
  • Sometimes, we’re quick to reply to someone because we want to validate and reassure them. But it can stop the flow of emotion of the person speaking.
  • After the person speaking stops sharing, the other person would paraphrase for them. Then, they switch positions.
  • This practice builds a sense of trust that is important in building a community.
  • Teacher training is a great way to create a safe space for yourself and build life-long relationships.

Listening vs. Hearing

  • Hearing is different from listening. Listening requires you to go beneath the words, observe on an intuitive level, and connect from that place.
  • If you pay attention, sometimes, nobody’s actually having a conversation in a room full of people.
  • Tessa never practiced actively listening as a child because there was no model for it.
  • 80% of the time in couples coaching, both parties want the same result. Often, the reason for the problem is they don't feel seen.
  • All it takes to connect with someone profoundly is to step back and listen.

The Importance of Eye Contact

  • Practicing eye contact is valuable.
  • An exercise Rosie learned in training is to make eye contact without saying anything.
  • Being in the presence of another actively while eye gazing is hard, even for a short time.
  • The exercise involved the following: eye gaze, maintaining eye contact for 30 seconds, and complimenting the other person after the time's up.
  • It was uncomfortable for Tessa and Christopher on the first two tries. On the third try, they transcended the silliness and started to see a deeper level of emotion.

Connecting with Strangers

  • Next week’s guest is the author of the book The Power of Strangers. He says that constant distraction from our phones hinders us from making conversations.
  • Rosie’s rule when traveling is she cannot be on her phone. She has to engage with the Uber and Lyft drivers she books.
  • Tune in to the full episode to hear about Rosie’s most memorable travel conversation with a driver and how he is alive now because of the power of strangers!
  • We have the power as people to change somebody else’s day.

The Power of Strangers

  • The power of strangers shows up in Tessa’s life in the form of angels. She had a serendipitous experience with a stranger.
  • At the line for her favorite coffee shop, she started to get impatient because the man before her was taking forever. It turned out that he wanted to pay for her coffee.
  • Tessa paid it forward to the person behind her. It became a chain of reciprocity of generosity with the people in line.
  • On another note, the new artwork in one of Tessa's favorite parks says, "Smile at five strangers today." But once you smile at one person, you won't stop at five.
  • Tessa hopes to spread more positivity by smiling more at others and making smiles contagious.

5 Powerful Quotes

[12:01] “[Self-mothering] is very much a self-care process. It’s very much a way that I speak to myself. It’s very much a way that I say, ‘I love you unconditionally’.”

[17:31] “If we listened to each other, we would garner more connection, we would be more inclined to engage with other people, we would feel more confident, more grounded, more able to express ourselves fully.”

[19:50] “[Active listening] is really an act of witnessing and letting someone else do the speaking and holding space for them while they’re speaking.”

[26:59] “Listening requires you to go beneath the words and to observe on a heart level, on an intuitive level to try and see what’s underneath the words… Then, try to connect with them from that place.”

[43:22] “Let’s make smiles contagious. Let’s have a smile pandemic.”

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Sep 10, 2021

Becoming Better by Shifting Your Mindset and Taking Control of Your Life with Bricia Lopez

Growing up, our parents tell us what to do and what not to do. Thus, even as we grow into our unique selves, we still feel restricted in doing and pursuing what we want. We base our decisions as adults on the things we learned and heard growing up. But becoming better  does not happen this way. You should shift your mindset and start taking control of your life. That's when freedom, contentment, and fulfillment come in.

In this episode, Bricia Lopez talks about the most valuable lessons she learned from motherhood and running a family business. She shares the experience of being pregnant and giving birth during the pandemic, along with navigating the new normal as an entrepreneur. Bricia also lets us take a peek at what it's like working with her family in their business. She discusses how understanding you're in control is crucial in decision-making and becoming better as a person.

If you’re stuck in a mindset that keeps you from moving forward, then this episode is for you!

Here are three reasons why you should listen to the full episode:

  1. Discover how motherhood pushed Bricia to become a better person.
  2. Find out what generational wealth is and what it does for families.
  3. Learn how resilience pushes you to move forward no matter the adversities.

Resources

Episode Highlights

How Bricia Handled the Pandemic

  • She was 20 weeks pregnant in March last year and gave birth in July.
  • The experience of carrying her baby through the pandemic was grounding for Bricia.
  • The pandemic put things into perspective. At the end of the day, it’s all about taking care of her children.
  • Because she was high-risk, she had to stay home and let her team manage her restaurant.

Becoming Better for Her Children

  • For Bricia, giving birth to a girl was a completely different experience from giving birth to a boy.
  • After she gave birth to her baby girl, felt the urge of becoming better.
  • She took care of her body during the first few weeks after her pregnancy and dropped her bad habits.
  • Bricia admits that she did not take care of her body after giving birth to her firstborn. This time around, becoming better at this aspect of motherhood was her priority.
  • Being pregnant during the pandemic made it easier for Bricia to slow down.

Navigating the New Normal

  • Bricia is now back to the grind 100%. She has someone who helps take care of her daughter.
  • Despite being busy again, she feels at peace because she loves what she does.
  • She doesn’t feel guilty leaving her daughter behind because she got to spend so much time with her one-on-one.
  • With the economy opening up, it feels like the roaring 20s again for businesses.

Guelaguetza Restaurant

  • Their website is now called ilovemole.com. It’s easier to remember than the previous guelaguetza.com.
  • The restaurant is in Koreatown in Los Angeles.
  • They specialize in Oaxacan cooking.

Building Generational Wealth

  • Bricia loves working with her family. She runs the family business with her brother and sister.
  • They’re building something that will last for the next generation. They are also becoming better at handling their finances than their parents.
  • For Bricia, generational wealth allows you to be in control of your time.
  • As a result, you can be more creative. You are also more at peace and present.
  • By building generational wealth, she is allowing her children to explore what they want without having to worry about money.

Mental Graduation

  • We are continuously graduate mentally to another state of mind.
  • We go through mental high school and mental college. Then, we get to the place where we open doors to new dimensions of financial knowledge.
  • Becoming better means you have to keep learning.
  • It’s important to remember that age doesn't define your capacity to learn new things.

Taking Chances

  • Bricia didn’t realize how big of a hold her parents had on her life until they retired.
  • She always wanted to be a graphic designer, but her father was against it. Bricia wished she didn’t listen and just went for it.
  • She realized she could do anything when her parents retired and moved away. She and her siblings bought the restaurant from their parents and took over.
  • Making a decision and following through it is the hardest skill to learn and lean on.
  • No one has control of your life but you. Understanding this will make you realize that you can do anything you want.

How Resilience Impacted Bricia’s Decision-Making

  • Adversities will always happen in life and business; it’s the way the world works.
  • You can decide to stop and backtrack, or you can stop, learn, and move forward.
  • Once you understand why something happened, you’ll realize it’s not that big of a deal and develop a new perspective.
  • Opportunities come when you’re not scared. You keep becoming better as you face and deal with issues and adversities.
  • Becoming better at self-compassion is one of the hardest things to learn in life. Yet, it’s one of the most useful tools you can have.

The Most Important Value Bricia Wants Her Children to Have

  • For Bricia, it’s confidence. If you’re innately confident, you can make anything happen no matter what the world tells you.
  • Innate confidence is different from given confidence or fake confidence that makes a person delusional.
  • Instead of giving her son fake confidence, she builds his self-esteem by letting him fail, explore, and do things for himself.

How Bricia Feels Radically Love

  • Working in the hospitality industry, her life revolves around serving people.
  • And so, Bricia feels radically loved when people listen to her and give their time, compassion, and energy without taking.

5 Powerful Quotes from This Episode

[06:14] “I just need to become a better woman. I need to become even a better version of me for [my daughter].”

[15:16] “Generational wealth means having more control of your time, without the stress of other things.”

[18:51] “No one's too old to learn anything.”

[22:37] “Getting used to the fact that making a decision and following through that decision is probably the hardest skill to learn and lean on.”

[29:27] “[Confidence is] something that you have to innately understand. They have to fail and then learn that they can do it themselves.”

About Bricia

Bricia Lopez is a restaurant owner, entrepreneur, and best-selling author. She is the co-owner of an Oaxacan restaurant, Guelaguetza. Additionally, Bricia is a co-founder of Mole and More, together with her siblings. They sell proprietary cocktail mix, I Love Micheladas, and mole paste. Beyond this, Bricia is also the co-founder and co-host of the Super Mamás Podcast.

As one of the foremost proponents of Oaxacan culture and cuisine in the United States, Bricia is the author of the best-selling cookbook, Oaxaca. In 2015, the James Beard Award Foundation awarded her restaurant the American Classics award. The L.A. Times also granted her the Latinos de Hoy Cultural Ambassador Award. Bricia has been featured in various publications, including The L.A. Times, Forbes, The New Yorker, and GQ Magazine.

If you want to connect with Bricia, you may visit her Instagram, Twitter, LinkedIn, and Facebook accounts.

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Sep 8, 2021

#WisdomWednesdays: Pressing Pause, Mindful Speaking, and Powerful Ideas for Self-Care

Our ideas for self-care  often consist of getting a relaxing massage, dipping into bubble baths, and splurging on new stuff. This perception makes it seem like self-care is sold in bottles — in bath bombs, in beauty and wellness products, in art materials, and the list goes on. But the highest forms of self-care actually cost nothing and can also extend to your relationships and interactions with others.

In today's episode, Rosie and Tessa discuss self-care practices that will nourish you and your relationship with your loved ones. Fostering good relationships is equally essential to your well-being as pampering yourself every once in a while. Learning how to express yourself kindly, embracing change, and pause and reflection are self-care practices that improve your life overall.

If you want to learn valuable ideas for self-care to nurture yourself and your relationships, then this episode is for you!

Here are three reasons why you should listen to the full episode:

  1. Learn about the “feel, felt, found” technique and how to use it in situations filled with stress and frustration.
  1. Discover the importance of choosing your words and how you say them wisely.
  1. Find out how pressing pause and expressing yourself compassionately are the ultimate practices of self-care.

Resources

Episode Highlights

How to Calm Someone Down

  • Telling someone to calm down usually elicits the opposite response.
  • Be mindful of the language you use with others and yourself.
  • Every time you find the urge to tell someone to calm down or react negatively to being told this line, try using the “feel, felt, found” technique.
  • It’s about what you “feel” the person is feeling at the moment, what you “felt” about it, and what actions you “found” you can both take to assess and solve the situation.
  • Listen to the full episode to find out how the technique worked for Rosie and Torry!

Expressing Yourself with Compassion

  • When you’re frustrated, it’s difficult to respond to situations compassionately.
  • We aggressively react most of the time because of the underlying fear, which may prevent us from acting wisely.
  • For Rosie, one of the ultimate ideas for self-care is expressing yourself fully.
  • Suppressing your feelings due to fear of losing control or exhaustion is harmful because you might develop an unhealthy relationship with self-expression.
  • Acknowledging someone’s feelings immediately diffuses the situation.

The Danger of “But”

  • When you use ”but” in a sentence, you negate everything that came before that.
  • Try changing “but” into a different word, such as “and”.
  • Be a part of the solution, not the problem.
  • Use your words mindfully instead of lashing out at people.

Responding with Empathy

  • When Tessa notices someone getting upset, she tries to respond with empathy and acknowledgment.
  • Try putting yourself in another person’s shoes.
  • It’s easy to simply attack someone for not sharing the same opinions and beliefs, but it’s necessary to work on bettering our relationships to create a ripple effect.
  • Changing the world starts from home. It’s where we learn how to form relationships.

Moving On and Embracing Change

  • Moving forward and not being stuck in the past is one of the best ideas for self-care.
  • Living in the present allows you to create new habits and improve yourself and your relationships.
  • In relationships, don’t use the words “never” and “always”. These trap people in their past selves and creates an obstacle for change.
  • We’re all constantly changing, and accepting change comes with treasuring your people.

Choosing What To Say and How To Say Them

  • Be more conscious of the language and communication style you use with others.
  • Though it might be unintentional, using “never” and “always” can come off as dismissive and judgmental.
  • Also, remember that it’s not always necessarily about what you’re saying, but how you’re saying it. So, pay attention to your body language and non-verbal communication.
  • Choosing to speak mindfully can help you become a better communicator.

Remember to Press Pause

  • Stepping away from a situation can diffuse it and help you calm down.
  • It’s best to do something else to collect yourself and return to a charged conversation at a later time.
  • Not many people realize this, but pausing and reflecting are the greatest acts and ideas for self-care.

Misconceptions About Self-Care

  • Tessa’s friend thinks that self-care is something she has to do.
  • Self-care is somehow commercialized as though it could be bottled up into products.
  • But self-care isn’t something that you can buy; it is something you already are, and you are capable of attaining on your own.

Crucial Ideas for Self-Care

  • It’s essential to be consistent in caring for yourself because no one else is going to do it for you.
  • Build self-care into your day and take a pause.
  • Also, express yourself clearly and compassionately.
  • Remember that being passionate doesn’t give you a pass to express yourself rudely.

5 Powerful Quotes from This Episode

[18:41] “One of the ultimate practices of self-care is to be able to express yourself fully, to be able, to tell the truth as best as you can, and to not push it down.”

[22:12] “If we have the capacity to express our anger, we should have the capacity to use our words mindfully and use our words kindly instead of just lashing out at people.

[26:22] “Start now. You can create a new habit every day. Every moment, every second, you have the opportunity to not be that person.”

[26:47] “We are who we are. But we also are who we are going to be.”

[36:18] “Build [self-care] into your day. Take those breaths, take those pauses, have conversations, express yourself in a very clear and concise way that doesn’t involve an aggressive tone.”

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Sep 3, 2021

How to Heal Trauma Through Movement with Tracy Lynn

There is freedom in moving our bodies. Movement can be a catalyst to better understand your body and yourself. Through moving, you can feel, heal, and express. Whichever modality of movement you choose—yoga, dance, or even martial arts—you can connect with your body and allow yourself to be who you want to be. These can even help you learn how to heal trauma.

In today's episode, Tracy Lynn shares with us her experience with dance, yoga, and movement. She explains how movement has allowed her to gain more freedom, hold more space, and express herself better. She also shares with us the value of permitting ourselves to feel the emotions that come up within us. Doing so allows us to break out of the boundaries set by the systems of capitalism, patriarchy, and perfectionism. Tracy reminds us that we can show up for ourselves through movement and other tools that can help us feel and do better.

Listen to this episode if you want to know more about how to heal trauma  by connecting with your body and self through movement!

Here are three reasons why you should listen to the full episode:

  1. Understand why movement can help you connect deeper with yourself.
  2. Learn why movement can teach you how to heal trauma.
  1. Understand the importance of letting go of perfection and allowing yourself to feel different emotions.

Resources

Episode Highlights

Tracy’s History with Movement

  • Movement has always been a part of Tracy’s life. It took time for her to transform it into what she now refers to as ‘an act of self-love.’
  • She shares the pressure she felt and the experience of growing up as a child of Olympic-level swimmers.
  • Tracy says that what she does now is a ritual; it’s a mash-up of different movement styles as a means of healing.

Re-learning to Connect with the Body

  • Tracy used to have zero regard for her body. But after getting sober, Tracy developed a new connection with her body through dance and movement.
  • She used to have an all-or-nothing mentality. After going through extremes, she realized she does not have to settle in one place or live her life in perfection.
  • Healing does not have to be done the way it’s shown on social media; the process is different for everyone.

Showing Up for Yourself

  • Movement can be used as a modality for healing. It can help if you’re looking for a way on how to heal trauma.
  • However, being knowledgeable about what you can do does not make you immune to feeling down.
  • It’s important to create an ecosystem in your life where you can show up for yourself and do the things that make you feel better.

Emotions Amidst the Pandemic

  • The pandemic has left us to collectively feel overwhelmed. Others have also felt a sort of absence.
  • Many have also experienced existential crises because of the pandemic.
  • We should allow ourselves to feel all our feelings and emotions. Otherwise, we may succumb to sickness.

Creating Space for What Matters to You

  • For many, the pandemic has certainly been a catalyst to re-examine and change aspects of their lives.
  • Similarly for Tracy, the pandemic has allowed her to learn how to hold people accountable for the trauma she’s experienced.
  • She was able to create space for the incredible reality she’s experiencing now.
  • Tune in to the podcast to hear more about the experiences and changes Tracy made in her life.

How to Heal Trauma

  • Tracy goes by her gut and intuition once she feels she is no longer in a safe space.
  • Remember that as we look for ways on how to heal trauma, there is no one correct way.
  • Tracy realized she can learn how to heal trauma by trying different means to dig into her untapped feelings and emotions.
  • The past few months have taught Tracy that there’s a lot of freedom in change, and anything and everything is subject to change.

Movement through Yoga

  • Tracy’s favorite thing about being a teacher is watching people unapologetically become themselves.
  • Yoga helps people become healthier, create better coping mechanisms, and gain more trust in themselves.
  • Yoga and movement enabled Tracy to be who she wanted to be.
  • Part of yoga is cultivating discernment to know what to do when you’re not on the safety of your mat or cushion.

Permit Yourself to Mess Up

  • Tracy emphasizes the importance of letting go of perfectionism.
  • Explore the tools that can help you discover more about how your body communicates with you.
  • Doing so helps you gain a deeper understanding of yourself by going beyond the body layer and trappings of the ego.
  • Allow yourself to feel even the uncomfortable.

Reflections on Yoga

  • Tracy notes that yoga is presented differently in the West.
  • She wants people to understand that the yoga and movements she teaches are not hers.
  • These are borrowed movements that she alchemizes in her body and uses to gain more freedom, self, breath, and space.

Committing to the Recovery Process

  • It’s important to embody what you preach and be yourself through the tools that help you align with your highest self.
  • It’s also crucial to constantly practice introspection and reflection.
  • Make an inventory of how, what, and why you’re doing the things you’re doing.
  • Be open to your authentic self.

How Tracy Feels Radically Loved

  • Tracy’s partner reminds her that no matter what she wants to do, she just has to start, to just be, and to just learn in the process.
  • Tracy sees the ultimate act of self-love as accepting herself as she’s doing this.

5 Powerful Quotes from This Episode

[07:41] “I can dance between both areas; I can vacillate; I can be here or there; I can fall apart and pick myself back up. And that’s kind of been my most healing transition. It’s realizing that I don’t need to look at [healing] through the lenses of perfection.”

[12:05] “Illness happens in us when we don’t let ourselves feel [or] when we suppress emotion.”

[22:22] “You can change; you can shift. And there’s a lot of freedom in that.”

[23:38] “Doing this yoga or this movement enables me to be who I wanted to be—who I suppressed, who I silenced, who I was afraid of putting out there. Because I honestly feel  like our ultimate motivation for a lot of things is to actually just be connected to people.”

[30:38] “The way that I’ve alchemized [the movements] in my body as a traumatized person, as a person that’s been drug-addicted, as a person that’s been sexually abused and assaulted, and how it helped me just get a little bit freer, and get a little more fucking space, to breathe and be myself. To be the weirdo that I am.”

About Tracy

Tracy Lynn is a teacher, mover, and body explorer. She teaches and performs different styles of movement from modern dancing to martial arts, yoga, and more. For her, movement allows her to feel and connect with herself and with other people. Through the movements she teaches and shares, she hopes others can unapologetically be themselves.

Visit Tracy’s website to know more about her and what she does. You can also check her out on various social media platforms seen in the Resources section. 

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Sep 1, 2021

#WisdomWednesday: How to Deal with Anger with Rosie and Tessa

Are you ready to take a deeper look at the emotion of anger? Anger is often perceived as a scary or unsafe emotion to have and exhibit as a human being.

In today's episode, Rosie and Tessa share how we can embrace the emotion of anger, in a safe way. Here, we talk about our personal journeys with this highly charged emotion. We also share some wisdom about how to harness anger as a tool that can be managed to protect oneself and create deeper connections. Wade further enlightens us on how we can immerse yoga with the human experience. This episode is a call to remember that we are all a part of the greater good and understand that all emotions are allowed. The call to action isn’t to stifle your emotions, but rather to pause and consider a helpful and healthy response in the face of your emotions.

If you want to find helpful ways to understand and befriend your anger, then this episode is for you!

Here are three reasons why you should listen to the full episode:

  1. Discover how you can connect with your anger in a healthy way.
  1. Learn why anger serves a purpose and how it can be a tool that you can manage.
  1. Get insights on allowing emotions to run their course, and how to practice the pause between stimulus and response.

Resources

  • “On Anger” excerpt, as read by Tessa Tovar, comes from Tim Westfeldt, founder of the Emotional Hygiene Method and the Westfeldt Institute, summarized from the book “Emotional Hygiene” (yet to be published) | Connect with the Westfeldt Institute: Website | Instagram | Facebook
  • Daily Meditations quote from Buddha, as read by Rosie | The Daily Meditations
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5 Powerful Quotes from This Episode

[03:16] “You will not be punished for your anger. You will be punished by your anger.” - Buddha, read by Rosie Acosta

[10:21] “First, before we talk about anger specifically, I want to share the idea that emotions are tools we can use to increase safety.” - Tim Westfeldt, read by Tessa Tovar

[11:05] “When we aren’t able to manage our anger tool, then it can become destructive, hurtful, and prevent connection. Anger that’s well mastered is controlled, generative, and inviting because it creates safety for us and the people around us.” - Tim Westfeldt, read by Tessa Tovar

[14:22] “Emotions are like rolling waves. You have to let them run their course and have the experience.” - Rosie Acosta

[21:10] “We can actually harness anger, and we can look at it, and treat it like a friend as opposed to treating it like something that is bad, or something that we want to push down, or we want to let go of. It’s an emotion we have, it's natural.” - Rosie Acosta

 

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