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Hi I’m Rosie Acosta. I am a Meditation Teacher; Speaker and Author of You Are Radically Loved: A healing journey to self-love. I grew up in East Los Angeles during the 92 La Riots and it set me on a troubled path for many years. I didn’t grow up with mentors in my life, so I turned to reading as many books as I possibly could to learn about life’s purpose. In my journey as a First Gen-Mexican American, I found having these conversations gave me insight, support, and inspiration. So, I decided to create a place where I could share these conversations with my community. The Radically Loved Podcast was born! How do we create a radically loved life? Come have a sit with me so we can discover all things mindfulness, spirituality, self-love, and overall healthy living. Please be sure to share the episodes that you love and also leave us a review!
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May 28, 2021

Lessons Learned from Grieving a Loss with Henry Ammar

Loss is an inevitable part of life, as is the ensuing grief that follows. However, knowing that it’s coming doesn't mean we're prepared for it when it gets here. When we lose someone important, it throws us off course. It may even lead us to having unhealthy responses to loss, like isolation. These unhealthy responses get us through the pain of grieving a loss , but they numb our feelings and prevent us from finding true healing.

In this episode, Henry Ammar teaches us how to make sense of grieving a loss. Instead of letting our emotions overwhelm us or sweeping them under the rug, he encourages us to embrace uncomfortable feelings. If we listen close enough, our emotions carry valuable wisdom and guidance. Only when we allow ourselves to feel the fullness of our emotions can we start healing.

Tune in to the full episode to learn how you can find meaning in grieving a loss.

Here are three reasons why you should listen to the full episode:

  1. Learn to define your circle of control after going through a loss.
  2. Find wisdom and guidance as you go through grieving a loss.
  3. Discover the three things you need to do to deal with grief healthily.

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Episode Highlights

On Grieving a Loss

  • Remember that we all go through grieving a loss. As you relate with others, you understand that you will get better.
  • When we go through grieving a loss, we tend to isolate ourselves and feel as if our sadness will last forever. But loss can also be a catalyst for growth.
  • Henry shared how several deaths in his family taught him to approach life differently.
  • When his mother was diagnosed with cancer, he made a conscious choice to deal with grief healthily. He chose to focus on what he could control and how he showed up for his mother during her last days.
  • There are healthy ways to work through grief and come out the other end.

The Intensity of Grieving a Loss

  • When you’re grieving, it helps to have a safe space of connection.
  • When we experience trauma, we react not only to the situation but also to past traumas that haven't healed.
  • It’s easy to block these intense emotions. But remember that feeling is part of healing.

Healing by Listening to Your Emotions

  • Emotional regulation is not about ignoring your feelings or letting them swallow you whole.
  • It means embracing the depth of your feelings with intention, compassion, and love.
  • Once you tune into your emotions, the next step is to get honest with yourself and ask, “What do I need to heal? What meaning can I give to this situation?”
  • Instead of letting your emotions take over, let them guide you. Become friends with them.
  • True healing doesn't mean you forget. It's giving new meaning to the situation, which will allow you to move forward with purpose and honor the memory of the one you lost.

Riding the Emotional Wave

  • Henry identifies three things that can help you along your healing journey.
  • First, find a support system that gives you the space to grieve. Don't isolate yourself, but also recognize and acknowledge if you need time alone.
  • Second, be lovingly honest with yourself. Make peace with the fact that there are things outside of your control. Let your emotions serve as guideposts.
  • Lastly, find a strong “why,” a reason to move forward and live on.
  • Grief should not make you hard nor weak. Like a tea bag in boiling water, it’s possible to come out of this experience stronger and wiser.

The Importance of Love

  • True healing cannot occur without love, so do not put up walls around your heart.
  • As you think about the person or pet you’ve lost, you can feel their presence through the love you shared.
  • We all go through grieving a loss differently. Whatever you’re feeling is valid.
  • Just remember, don’t close yourself off from love because of fear.
  • Commit to having magic moments and to being mindful and intentional about not closing your heart.

Radical Love

  • For Henry, the supreme ethic of life is love. It’s who we are and who we ought to become.
  • Don’t let the death of a loved one mean the death of the love inside you.
  • Death does not just take something or someone away; it also gives meaning.
  • Instead of going through the motions, learn to love with all your heart and appreciate the here and now. In life, you have a choice to make the best out of your limited time.
  • Whether it’s yoga, mindfulness, or mediation, find something that allows you to move past grief and choose life every day.

5 Powerful Quotes from this Episode

[26:37] “Co-regulation is a real thing, like regulating our emotions and it's not hiding it. It's not ignoring it. It's not allowing it to take over. It's lovingly looking at it with an intention as if it is a child crying out for help and you embrace with compassion and love.”

[32:26] “I'm not going to become enslaved by my emotions or let my emotions dictate me. I'm gonna let them counsel me and I think there's beauty in allowing our emotions, becoming friends with them instead of getting upset that they're there.”

[44:04] “I couldn't control the situation…I knew the only thing I could control is the meaning I'm giving my life going forward.”

[47:28] “Do not build a wall to love… I would much rather experience love in my life and lose it than isolate my heart from experiencing these moments again and creating magic moments in my life. So instead of building a wall, I committed to making magic moments more regularly.”

[55:17] “I think the supreme ethic of life is love. It's who we're becoming. It’s who we are, right, but peeling the layers off and stepping into that love for ourselves, love for others. And I think I didn't want the death of those I love, become the death of the love inside of me and the death of who I am.”

About Henry

Henry Ammar is the founder and CEO of MakeItHappen.Life, where he delivers inspiring content and shares empowering experiences to help people lead confident and fulfilling lives. Henry is also the host of the “Making It Happen” podcast, where he provides real-world insights aimed at creating an empowered life that you can wake up excited for.

In his professional music career, Henry performed on a Grammy Award-winning album and shared the stage with music legends. But it was in leadership and coaching that Henry found his true calling. Today, he leverages his success in music and business to empower individuals, businesses, and communities.

To learn more about Henry, visit his website or connect with him on Instagram, Youtube, Facebook, Twitter, and LinkedIn.

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May 26, 2021

Marco Borges is a renowned Exercise Physiologist and New York Times Bestseller teaching individuals to transform their lives and bodies through his innovative exercise and nutrition programs. With his latest cookbook, The 22-Day Revolution, you’ll easily understand clear Marco became the man responsible for converting Jay-Z and Beyonce to veganism.

This interview is one of my absolute favorites. Marco is one of the most inspiring people in my life. I am so eternally grateful for his work and how it’s helped people (including me) create a happier, more sustainable life.

In this conversation, Marco gets into what’s really behind the problems we have with our bodies, how habits make up our lives and what we can do to change them, why a plant-based diet doesn’t have to be so difficult, and more.


Radically Innovative Marco


Uncovering the truths of what’s hurting our bodies and sharing that with the world
Recognizing we are the sum of our habits and how they determine well-being
Living by the Japanese practice of continuous self-improvement in every way

Radically Inspired Clarity

One good action begets another good action. To start a new habit, take it one good action at a time.
It’s more important to understand what you’re doing to be healthy than figure out what to do when you’re sick.


Marco Borges Answers…


What’s the driving force behind your career in health?
How do we change our non-constructive habits at home?
What would you say to people who feel stuck?

Radically Loved Quotes

“We have the answer to most of the problems that ail us and it lies within what you’re putting into your body.”

“We think that the phone in our hands is the greatest super computer of all time, but the reality is that nothing compares to our beautiful bodies.”

“I was tired of hearing that disease was hereditary. I knew enough to know that wasn’t true.”

“We tend to be so focused on perfection, that we give up when we don’t achieve it.”


A Little More About Our Guest

Marco Borges is passionate about guiding people on the path to developing a healthy lifestyle. As an author and one of the most sought after fitness & plant-based nutrition experts in the country, Marco lives by the simple mantra, “I am committed to making a difference everyday.” Learn more about Marco at www.22daysnutrition.com/ and on Instagram, Twitter, and Facebook.

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May 21, 2021

Tune into Your Intuition  and Empower Yourself with Laura Day

Do you feel like you're just following other people's plans for you? Do you want to be able to tune into your intuition and empower yourself to make good choices?

People tell us countless times how our instincts, gut feelings, or hunches aren't that reliable. The fact that we experience them, however, means they are essential. Our very own intuition is logical, and listening to it can mean our success. Whether in professional or personal life choices, it pays to unlock your mind and tune into your intuition.

In this episode, Laura Day joins us to share the wonders of engaging intuition in informing your life choices. Laura is a bestselling author who has helped people create profound changes using their innate intuitive capabilities. She talks about the critical role of intuition in regaining control over your future. As an intuitionist, she also shares her top tips to tune into your intuition to achieve your goals.

If you want to claim the sense of control back into your life and feel empowered, then tune into this episode!

Here are three reasons why you should listen to the full episode:

  1. Learn what intuition is and the importance of tapping into it.
  2. Discover Laura's tips on how to tune into your intuition to regain control over your future.
  3. Find out how Laura feels radically loved by listening to the full episode!

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Episode Highlights

Uncertainty in the Pandemic

  • Dwelling on the past or an "old normal" will put you off balance. Laura advises focusing on what you can do right now.
  • Crisis takes everything away, but that could be the most creative time in your life.
  • Laura believes that the pandemic has allowed people to hear each other's voices.
  • Because of the problems we face now, we tend to forget our resilience to challenges.
  • One of the opportunities that came out of the pandemic was communication over a distance. It allowed people to tap into vast sources of information and perspectives.

All About Intuition

  • Normal human brains have a sense of the future and the people around them. This sense is intuition.
  • Laura trains you to read yourself and others using evidence-based practice.
  • In childhood, you form an ego because of your repressed intuition.
  • Intuition is a matter of knowing what your goals are and realizing that everything is interconnected.
  • It's hard to read yourself because you usually don't learn how to tune into your intuition.

Regaining Control over Our Future

  • If you know that something terrible is going to happen, you can still create change.
  • The most impoverished areas of our lives have the most pent-up energy.
  • We are so good at kicking ourselves down. But, some people can help you shatter that pattern.
  • We become disempowered by the idea that we need to adopt someone else's narrative.
  • Listen to the full episode to know more about how Laura empowered herself by following her narrative.

How to Tune into Your Intuition

  • Successful people get up in an uncertain world, confront their demons, and still get what they want. They create a better place for everybody.
  • Set a single, flexible goal. When situations come up, remember your goal. This goal becomes a magnet for intuition.
  • Laura also likes to practice blind reading with other people.
  • Use your sleep to connect with your plan. Before going to sleep, take a moment to suspend the illusion of separateness.
  • Have high expectations and applaud the effort when you don't hit the mark.

Choosing Your First Goal

  • The downside of intuition is that it makes you vulnerable to what other people are feeling and judging.
  • Your first goal must be the thing that worries you at the start of the day.
  • Your goal is also the thing that you currently want more than anything else.

5 Powerful Quotes from This Episode

[03:07] “If you're always looking back on an old normal, whether it's in a pandemic, or in life, you're always going to be off-balanced. Right now is your normal.”

[16:05] “Everything is a result of something, and there are no signs. Your entire life is a sign.”

[21:25] “We are more trustworthy with ourselves than we realize.”

[30:44] “Don't externalize power. You are the universe. You are your spirit guide—you are everything doing the very hard job of being a unique human being.”

[35:22] “Intuition is our ability to know information about people in life, but it's also our ability to set a target and use that information in a way that creates for us.”

About Laura

Laura Day is a bestselling author who has spent nearly four decades helping individuals, organizations, and companies create profound changes using their innate intuitive capabilities. As an intuition trainer, she has trained thousands of people in different fields such as business, science, and medicine.

Laura has written about intuition and its application in different life aspects, such as love and financial success. She has been featured in many publications, including Newsweek, New York Magazine, The Independent, Bottom Line, Cosmopolitan, Marie Claire, and People magazines. Laura has also appeared on numerous shows such as CNN, Fox News, Good Morning America, The View, and The Oprah Winfrey Show.

Interested in knowing more about Laura's work? Visit her website or connect with her and with other intuits by following her Instagram.

 

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May 19, 2021

Adapting to Change with Henry Ammar

Henry Ammar is the founder and CEO of MakeItHappen.Life. He is an award-winning empowerment coach, impact entrepreneur, a creative, and a visionary leader with in-depth experience in the personal development, business leadership, entertainment, real estate, and education industries. Henry has lived many lives and is so full of incredible wisdom because of that. It was a privilege to have this conversation with him. I really look up to Henry and everything he’s doing. I cannot wait for you to listen to what he has to say. We talk about the amazing journey of Henry’s life and how he was led in so many different directions. Henry also goes in-depth about how we can respond to the prompting we receive to be guided in our lives. Radically Guided Henry Growing up with limiting beliefs and wanting different for himself Going into the music industry for 6 years and leaving to learn business Surrendering and following his heart to USC to go back to music Ending up in the pinnacle of real estate development Being led by divine guidance to speak and change lives Radically Inspired Clarity Everything that we do, we believe we’re doing for our benefit. Whatever our beliefs are, our subconscious is doing that because it thinks it’s benefitting us. As soon as you feel like you’re done, take action and let your body realize that this is your new identity. Henry Ammar Answers… How do I recognize signs in my own life? What do you need to do to unlearn your limiting beliefs? When can we expect these practices to start working? How important is the tone of our internal dialogue to our self-development? Radically Loved Quotes “Everybody should own their gifts. If you don’t own it, you can’t give it back.” “Honor what you think is right in the moment.” “I believe life could be one big bootcamp for me to grow.” “We tend to sleepwalk throughout the day when life is meant to be lived.” A Little More About Our Guest As a keynote speaker and empowerment coach, he has positively impacted tens of thousands of lives internationally. In his professional career, Henry has performed on a Grammy award winning album and traveled the world sharing the stage with legends. Henry went from creating music to creating businesses growing them locally from Los Angeles to international successes in just one year. He went on to graduate Magna Cum Laude from the University of Southern California, Marshall School of Business. Upon graduating, he put his knowledge to use by overseeing the investment and management of over $2 billion dollars in real estate in just three years. Henry’s true passion lies in the privilege to use his leadership, strengths, and successes to positively impact individuals, businesses and community. www.makeithappen.life

 

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May 14, 2021

Emotions in the Body  with Dr. Joey Mattina

When we feel pain, the first thing we think of is the possibility of a physical health condition. It may be an injury, muscle or tissue damage, soreness from lousy posture, and so much more. However, we don't think about how these pains may be emotions in the body—emotions that manifest physically. When you truly tune into your mind and body, you'll understand that your pain is so much more than what's on the surface.

In today's episode, chiropractor and healer Dr. Joey Mattina joins us to shed light on the deeper mind and body connection. He explains how stress and trauma manifest as physical ailments in our bodies and how we can access them. Joey also emphasizes the importance of proper breathing in modulating our body's nervous system.

Tune in to this episode to know how you can take the first steps in understanding and dealing with emotions in the body!

Here are three reasons why you should listen to the full episode:

  1. Learn the top-down and bottom-up approach in accessing our body and brain.
  2. Discover how trauma is tied to pains in different areas of the body.
  3. Find out what the pain-body is and some ways of dealing with it.

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Episode Highlights

The Body Keeps Score

  • There are two ways of accessing our body and brain. The top-down approach is talk therapy, while the bottom-up approach is bodywork and getting into our bodies.
  • As a chiropractor, Joey uses a combination of the two.
  • One of the chiropractic field's major arts is getting the best treatment for something, not merely a physical ailment.
  • A lot of times, nervous system issues tie down to past trauma and stresses in life.
  • Tune in to the full episode to hear Joey's experience uncovering emotions in the body during a myofascial seminar!

When the Person is Not Ready

  • Everybody's different. Joey tries to tune into people and their emotions in the body based on his experiences and personal healing journey.
  • He's the most present in life when he puts his hands on somebody.
  • He suffered from abuse when he was a child. He had issues talking about it and having people touch him.
  • When people aren't ready, let them walk through the door, either verbally or nonverbally.
  • People don't respond well when forced.

Processing Emotions in the Body

  • It's a lifelong journey. It takes the right time and life experience to be ready to access it.
  • Research has shown that ailments in different areas of the body correspond to different traumatic life experiences.
  • As a practitioner, it's all about matching the patient's vibration to invite a healing environment.

How Not to Take in the Subtle Energy of Accessing Trauma

  • As long as he can continue doing the things he enjoys, he stays grounded.
  • With his turbulent childhood, he had always been learning how to process and modulate stress.
  • His practice requires him to change energy every half hour interacting with different people. He knows it will get to him if he doesn't take the time to be with himself.
  • Joey continues to work on setting boundaries.

The Importance of Feeling Empowered to Care for Our Health

  • More than cracking, he's more in the realm of helping patients not see him.
  • He views himself as someone who can bring out the best in people, get in their bodies, and heal their wounds.
  • Touching people in the right way and making them realize they can change their life is the power of chiropractic care.

Dealing with the Pain-Body

  • The pain-body can be multiple things. It can be a specific traumatic event, a negative pattern you're in, and something that happened before you.
  • The biggest thing is trying to understand where your pain originates.
  • There are many different therapeutic ways to understand your pain. It's about experimenting and finding what works best for you.
  • Acknowledgment is the first step towards healing.

The General Theme in Chiropractic Care

  • His objective in his practice is to get patients out of the physical pain they're experiencing.
  • A lot of the general aches and pains are biochemical. Regular bodywork and adjustment are suitable for the actual physical nature of the body.
  • Working with athletes is different from working with the general population because they're dealing with specific torn muscles.
  • When he starts to see people more often than he would like to, that's when it essentially becomes a therapy session.
  • Many aches and pains in the body can also root from not breathing enough and having a tight diaphragm.

Stuck Breath

  • Breathing is an automatic function of the body that we don't have to do consciously. It is affected by the nervous system, including the sympathetic fight or flight.
  • When there is constant stress, we get chronic shallow breathing, and the stress hormones stay high.
  • Taking ten deep breaths can help lower your blood pressure and reduce cortisol.
  • A lot of what shows up as physical ailments in the body comes from the nervous system. Taking deep breaths is a way to teach the nervous system how to modulate.

What Is Box Breathing?

  • It's a four-second deep breath-in, four-second hold, four-second breath-out, and another four-second hold.
  • Wim Hof has done a lot of this breathing exercise.
  • Box breathing tells the body that things are okay and lowers the nervous system response.
  • The pain you experience under incredibly stressful things may occur because of so much tension in the body.

Voicing Out Trauma

  • It's something that lives with you for the rest of your life. So, it's about how comfortable you can get with it.
  • Everybody's going to process it differently. There's no shame in feeling nervous when you start talking about and processing trauma.
  • We all live with different pains; we have unique journeys. Don't be too hard on yourself.

Feeling Radically Loved

  • Joey feels radically loved when he's giving his best self to everybody else in his life.
  • While he can't control who loves him, he can control what he's putting into the universe.
  • Being radically loved means fulfilling his purpose.

5 Powerful Quotes

[07:26] “What's super interesting about it is everybody's different. And, you know, I'm always learning every single day. I can only--I just do the best I can based on my experiences and things that I've been through in my own healing journey.”

[09:39] “I'm still processing but but you know, it's a lifelong journey. But yeah, I you know, I think a lot of people when something like that happens, we tucked it away, we compartmentalize and it's something that's you know, we just try to not think about it and it lives in there.”

[11:35] “If someone comes in and they're cheerful and joyful, I try to match that. Because when you match somebody else's vibration, you get in sync, and you can then sort of you invite this healing environment.”

[12:35] “I find that as long as I can continue to do the things that I know, bring me joy, or my meditation, I stay very grounded.”

[17:07] “I just think that touching people in the right way physically, but also just sort of, you know, leaving them with something that says, “Oh, shit, I can change my life.” And, and that's very powerful to me.”

About Joey

Dr. Joey Mattina, DC, is an LA-based expert chiropractor. He is the head chiropractor of the LA Clippers. He has also worked with Dr. Dennis Colonello, a legendary chiropractor and Peak Wellness's founder. Joey works with professionals and people from all backgrounds, from athletes, celebrities and more. He is also the author of The Sit Secret: Your Chiropractor's Guide to Healthy Sitting.

To connect with Joey, you may visit his website and Instagram.

 

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May 12, 2021

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Danielle LaPorte is my absolute hero. She is the high priestess of entrepreneurship, consciousness, and self-empowerment. Her new book, White Hot Truth: Clarity for Keeping it Real On Your Spiritual Path from One Seeker to Another, launches May 16, 2017 and I can honestly say that this book is literally what the world needs at this exact moment. It has changed my perspective on so many things and opened the door to discovering a new way of being.

 

Named one of the “Top 100 Websites for Women” by Forbes, over 5 million visitors go to DanielleLaPorte.com every month for her daily #Truthbombs and what’s been called “the best place online for kickass spirituality.” Danielle has been a mentor of mine for years and I am so grateful for her work.

 

I am incredibly honored to have this chance to speak with Danielle. She graciously shared her insights on honesty, dealing with criticism, personal narrative, pulling out suffering stories, and finding truth.

 

Radically Truthful Danielle

 

  • Getting distracted by positive and negative criticism
  • Rooting into your why even if your why seems shallow
  • Honing in on your intuition and going deeper to assess what’s right
  • Recommitting to doing the things that are most loving

 

Radically Inspired Clarity

 

  • Love yourself so you can be kind. Wake up and serve the world in whatever way you can.
  • It’s difficult work waking up and being of service and it’s the most worthwhile thing you could do.

 

Danielle LaPorte Answers…

 

  • Why is it so important to be honest with ourselves?
  • How do we break through our personal narrative so it doesn’t consume us?
  • What is the biggest piece of advice you have for those looking for this type of truth?
  • How do you still seek truth?

 

Radically Loved Quotes

 

“All the times you gave up your power and did dumb things, that’s all part of waking up. Everybody does it. You’re on track.”

 

“Question everything. Sometimes the answer will be yes, I resonate. Sometimes, the answer is, ‘You kidding me?’”

 

“I just want to sit at the feet of true masters and then go be hip and sexy in my own way.”

 

“The best self-help turns out to be self-compassion. Befriending yourself is everything.

 

A Little More About Our Guest

 

Danielle LaPorte is an invited member of Oprah’s inaugural Super Soul 100, a group who, in Oprah Winfrey’s words, “is uniquely connecting the world together with a spiritual energy that matters.” Her book, The Desire Map, has been translated into 8 languages, evolved into a yearly day planner and journal system, a top 10 iTunes app, and an international workshop program with licensed facilitators in 15 countries. Her multi-million dollar company is made up of nine women and one very lucky guy, working virtually from seven different cities. Danielle is a speaker, poet, painter, and former business strategist and Washington-DC think tank exec, Entrepreneur Magazine calls Danielle, “equal parts poet and entrepreneurial badass...edgy, contrarian...loving and inspired.” Her charities of choice are VDay: a global movement to end violence against women and girls, and charity: water, setting out to bring safe drinking water to everyone in the world. She lives in Vancouver with her favorite person – her 12 year old son. Learn more at http://www.daniellelaporte.com and keep in touch on Instagram.

May 7, 2021

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Marisa Peer is a pioneering hypnotherapist trainer and best-selling author of four books. Her new book, I Am Enough, shares Marisa’s transformative work on self-worth. With this education, Marisa believes you can transform every area of your life, shatter all feelings of disconnection and low self-esteem, exude self-confidence, and discover your life’s purpose.

I’ve been following Marisa’s work for a long time. She’s had a big impact on my own path of self-development and I’m excited to share her latest work with you.

Marisa joined me to talk about how the world would be vastly different with self-worth education, how to truly have high self-esteem, the power of everything you say to yourself, and so much more.

 

Radically Transformative Marisa

 

  • Finding that feeling not enough is beneath most of our problems
  • Learning that every word creates a blueprint for our minds
  • Showing people how to fall in love with themselves forever

 

Radically Inspired Clarity

 

  • You can’t treat symptoms like cheating, lying, and other wrongdoings without getting to the core of enoughness.
  • Responsibility means the ability to respond. A responsible person understands when they respond to a situation badly.

 

Marisa Peer Answers…

 

  • What is our responsibility around self-esteem?
  • How do we know when we’re ready to change?
  • What’s the best way to connect with someone?

 

Radically Loved Quotes

 

“When did you decide you aren’t enough? There isn’t a baby on the planet that feels like they aren’t enough.”

 

“The unconscious mind has a belief that this illness or condition has a purpose. What we do is find that.”

 

“Human beings are not designed for modern life.”

 

“If you want someone to love you, fall in love with yourself.”

 

A Little More About Our Guest

 

There are few speakers today that have the wide experience and stellar reputation of Marisa Peer. Named Britain’s best therapist by Tatler magazine, Marisa has spent nearly three decades treating a client list that includes international superstars, CEOs, Royalty, and Olympic athletes. Her engaging and amusing talks are peppered with anecdotes from an unparalleled career in which she has helped thousands of people to overcome profound personal issues. Learn more at MarisaPeer.com, IamEnough.com.

 

 

 

 

May 7, 2021

Understanding Your Relationships Through Family Constellations  with Marine Selenee

Do you struggle with relationships? Do you feel like something is holding you back from staying true to yourself and living your best life? Maybe it’s time for you to try family constellations.

Whether we’re aware of it or not, our past profoundly influences our present choices. Our family story, in particular, is something we carry for the rest of our lives. However, the narrative we learned as kids may stop us from being authentic and reaching our full potential. By acknowledging our past through family constellations, we can finally heal and let go of our stories.

Marine Selenee joins us in this episode to discuss how family constellations can help you move forward in life. Marine talks about what happens in family constellations therapy and how you can start with it. She also shares her journey to starting the profession and how she deals with work exhaustion.

If you want to learn more about the wonders of family constellations, then tune in to this episode!

Here are three reasons why you should listen to the full episode:

  1. Discover how acknowledging your past can positively impact your life and relationships.
  2. Learn how family constellations therapy works and how to start with it.
  3. Find out how Marine feels radically loved.

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Episode Highlights

What is Family Constellations Therapy?

  • Family constellations therapy involves discovering your family story and understanding how it subconsciously impacts your life.
  • If you don’t acknowledge your family story, it might affect your adult life.
  • A part of this process is uncovering the things you’re holding on to, which keep you from moving forward.
  • Rosie had more revelations in a session of family constellations than she has ever had in therapy.

Marine’s Journey to Family Constellations

  • At first, Marine just wanted to understand why her father abandoned them.
  • She was introduced to family constellations when she hit rock bottom at 25 years old.
  • The simple idea of family constellations is that you’re responsible for holding onto your past or moving on from it.

The Impact of Acknowledging Your Past

  • The real burden is not the past itself but how you hold onto it.
  • Your past is not going to change. You can only change your perception of it.
  • By acknowledging it, we stop waiting for the narrative to change.
  • Any issues you are dealing with right now stem from a lack of belonging.
  • It takes courage to change to another dynamic.

About Marine’s Book

  • Marine is finishing the last chapter for her book, Connected Fates, Separate Destinies.
  • This book will be released in September 2021.

Starting Family Constellations Therapy

  • As long as you’re open to experience a new type of healing, you can do family constellations therapy.
  • She recommends one-on-one sessions for first-timers instead of group sessions.
  • Marine wants to give her clients every tool that can help them do the work on their own.

Unraveling the Subconscious

  • Our subconscious minds already give answers through our everyday language.
  • Understanding our subconscious is a true test in getting to know who we are.
  • You have the right to know your story and to heal from that.
  • A lot of things in Rosie’s subconscious were holding her back. Going through family constellations made her feel more at peace and empowered.

Is Family Constellation Exhausting?

  • Family constellation is Marine’s passion, so she doesn’t even feel like it’s work for her.
  • It feels like the sessions nourish her soul, that she feels energetic after each session.
  • Marine takes care of herself first to be able to take care of her clients.
  • She has a lot of people who help her take care of herself.

About Love and Relationships

  • Love and relationships are Marine’s favorite topics to write about in her book.
  • If you want to be in love with your partner, you need to heal your relationship with your parents.
  • Listen to the full episode to learn how to change your love life for the best drastically.

Family Constellations for People with No Parents

  • If your parents passed away, you could still find them, along with the answers, within yourself.
  • If you’re adopted, the answers are always within you, and family constellations can still work for you.

5 Powerful Quotes from This Episode

[06:24] “And that's what I like about family constellations like, yes, it is actually pretty much simple, you know, very simple. But in the end, you are in charge of what you want to do. Do you still want to hold on to it [your past story], or do you want to move on?”

[9:25] “You are the only one who can change your perception towards your past, towards your parents, and how at that moment, you want to live your life.”

[19:43] “It's your story and you have the right to know your story and you also have the right to heal from your story.”

[22:58] “I won't be able to function and be, I think, as good as I am with my clients if, at first, I wouldn't take care of me.”

[24:04] “If you want to be in love with your partner, in love with your relationship, this is what you have to do. You need to heal your relationship with your parents because whatever you did not understand with them, you are going to ask your partner to take care of it subconsciously speaking.”

About Marine

Marine Sélénée is a New York/Miami-based Family Constellations therapist, author, and speaker. She offers in-person and virtual private sessions and workshops. She also speaks at panel discussions and conferences, delivering motivational speeches. Since 2019 she’s partnered with Goop Health as an expert, and this year she joined Hay House, where her book, Connected Fates, Separate Destinies, will be published in the fall of 2021.

Her unique approach to Family Constellations helps people heal from family wounds and find individual blocks rooted in the family system. Her clients can get to the root of their pain and heal not only themselves but also the generations before and after them. Her greatest passion is sharing the transformative power of Family Constellations.

Want to know more about Marine’s work? You can follow her on Facebook or Instagram. You can also book a session with Marine on her website or email her at marine@marineselenee.com.

 

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